Are there supplements that decrease libido for women?

ETA: I need to clarify a few things. I didn't want go into details because I didn't want pervie men messaging me. I do still get off when we do it, but I can do a lot more and sometimes I just want to be fingerbanged until I forget my name. He focuses on PIV when we're in the bedroom vs texting is foreplay focused. It's amazing when he does put in the foreplay effort as well - that's just few and far in between. I think about sex with him all day and extremely turned on when I'm around him. I feel like it's overbearing and I just need to chill. I'm worse now at 40 than I was in my 20s. 😭

This is embarassing to admit to but my libido is really high and it's causing issues for my relationship. I've looked online but all I can find is advice for men.

We do a lot of what I call "quickies" (5 minutes) whereas I like longer play sessions and just getting started when he finishes. I'm getting so angry and frustrated that he'll sext me all day about the fun and extensive things we'll do that evening and I get so excited but then it's just a quickie without foreplay/barely foreplay for me.

I feel like such a horndog all the time and wondering if my expectations are just unrealistic? I'm not looking to end the relationship. Things are great otherwise, but I want to decrease my libido some. For context I'm 40 and he's 35. 🤦🏼‍♀️

ETA: I have discussed this with him numerous times and he says "I'll get you good tomorrow." But it rarely happens.