Therapist said something that bugged me, felt judged as a fellow clinician. I'm going to tell him

Hello. I'm curious what your thoughts are on this.

I, a therapist, started seeing a therapist. We've done like, 4 sessions.

Our last session, he mentioned how my own therapy will be beneficial to my work. (Agreed!)

He went on to say you can only take others as far as you took yourself. In the moment I nodded/agreed...but on reflection, I don't agree. In fact I think it's pretty clearly not true. I can intellectualize with my clients the right thing to do way more than I can emotionally do the same thing. An obvious example is couples therapy. Im single. I'm a great couples therapist.

Where it got even more dicey..I told him that I had an interview at a different practice. He suggest I talk to my current boss to see if we can resolve the issues I'm having. Sound advice.

Then the bit comes up again about taking others as far as I've gone. It came up naturally, not forced. But then he goes "would you have suggested a client talk to their boss first?"

I replied "I would like to think that I would, yes" and we moved on.

Reflecting on the session...I found that remark very condescending. And sort of like he is judging me as a professional..which i obviously don't want to feel in the therapy room. Yes, I would obviously suggest a client communicate their problems. Just because I myself tend to avoid conflict, doesn't mean I wouldn't suggest that to a client. That isnt a profound thing to suggest a client to do..so I found it condescending that just because I disclose some anxiety to him, he thinks I can't even suggest that basic advise.

Idk, what are your thoughts? Would you feel the same way? Regardless I'm going to share my thoughts with him, if for no other reason than to show him I am more than capable of having difficult conversations, but I'm not therapist when I'm in therapy.