Anyone use cal.com selfhosted for scheduling and appointments?

From what I've heard cal.com appears to be at least one of the best for scheduling and making appointments. That being said, maybe my expectations are just wrong or I don't understand how to fully utilize this properly. What I wanted was a way to have slots available for scheduling but I would handle the scheduling and not my clients. I wanted this integrated into my google calendar.

What I find is that:

1) changing the ip address or the fqdn after you initially set it up is very difficult. I've had to restore a backup to be able to change the ip address.

2) when I go to public view the template for the calendar view isn't what I had hoped for and doesn't let me see my appointments for the day unless I go to the week view and then I'll just see a white box where something was booked, but not any details of the appointment. I find the view only shows what's available but doesn't focus on what's booked. Could be because it's focusing on the client looking for an available slot.

3) I saw the notion calendar which looked very nice but I thought it would make the current calendar look like notion, which it didn't. So, maybe I misunderstood it and it's really bringing the cal.com calendar into notion?

I don't mean any of this as a complaint. I'm trying to lay out how I thought it would work. If I'm missing something and someone could correct me or let me know that it's just not feasible I'd appreciate that. There don't seem to be a lot of options for self hosted self scheduling apps.