Went to my first OB appointment and found out the baby didn’t make it

Exactly as the title says. Went for my first appointment and the OB couldn’t find a heartbeat. She brought in the ultrasound and still couldn’t. Brought in another Dr. who confirmed the loss.

Absolutely devastated. Of course I am. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

I’m also so relieved I live in a country where the only reaction my Drs gave me was compassion and understanding. I couldn’t imagine a mother going through this only to have people who know nothing about it say that it was her fault.

I know it wasn’t my fault. I have to go for a D&C to remove the tissue and we will be getting genetic testing done so we can hopefully find out why. At the end of the day, it was no one’s fault, I know that. It just wasn’t meant to be. 💔

Good luck mommas and those who are carrying. I wish you all the love and joy in the world. You can do this ❤️