Chubby trans guys

I js haven’t seen enough posts talking about this, like how invalid we feel, like I’m 5’3 and chubby but I go to gym so I have big arms and broad shoulders but I also have a tummy and small love handles. Which don’t get me wrong I rly learned to accept it and I don’t mind, I like how if my girl lays on me she has something comfy to lay on, also gym rly helped. But yet even w all that acceptance I feel invalid bc of it, like why can’t I js be one of those skinny trans guys that pass rly well. And Ik I’m not alone in this, this is something we need to talk about and normalize in the community. Like search up trans guys on TikTok or Pinterest out of all the posts u can maybe find 2-3 of chubby-er trans guys. Put your opinion and/or experience down

Ps: when I posted I didn’t think ppl might get this in the wrong way but now I realized maybe, I just want to say I posted this js to raise awareness no one in the community is responsible for this it’s just the today’s society norms