Update: cousin wants to attend my wedding

Update to this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/ILGL7m2LmQ

It completely backfired. My Fiancé called him and told him to stay away, and my cousin told his entire family. Now his parents and sister are feuding with my parents and sister. And my family is not even siding with me, claiming I should have focused on my new beginning and let go off something that happened 22 years ago.

Mom and sister even brought up their experiences of inappropriate touching throughout their life and said they had to learn to ignore such creeps who are relatives and so should I.

I’m getting a fuckton of scoldings from my parents and sister. I agree that it’s happening too close to the event for my own good, I should’ve acted on it a month ago instead of now.

I probably could have let go had he apologised but clearly men don’t have to nor do they feel the need to.

He’s counting on the fact that I will be shamed by my family for bringing it up, and he is right. Feels like a chess move gone wrong.