I let myself come , is that weird?
Obviously this doesn't happen all the times. But I have genuinely been with a lot of very nice men, and when things are going great and the sex is enjoyable I let myself orgasm. It's a different type of orgasm as don’t let myself go and I stay in alert mode. But at times it's fun and it feels good, so I think "why not?"
Is it weird? Should I focus on getting the job done only instead ?