This sub treats men and women like hive minds

I see a lot of posts here that go:

“You have to admit men do X.”

“You have to admit women do Y.”

It’s cruel to write off 50% of the population like that. If you don’t like a certain behavior just date someone who doesn’t act that way.

For example I don’t like gold diggers so I’m dating a doctor. Simple.

I think the response to this will be “But I can’t find that kind of person!” Well… why are you on Reddit debating about it instead of meeting people? If you put in the time and effort build a healthy social circle dating becomes way easier. You can’t control how other people act but you can control your own effort. For sure society is less social than it used to be but it’s still totally possible to make friends.

If you don’t like a certain behavior just date someone who doesn’t act that way. Simple.