The meaning of the phrases “Just choose better” is much simpler and less terrible
Yes, phrases like "Choose better" can be terribly annoying and sometimes even unfair to people who hear it. And really, they can say this to people who really "Chose better" but unfortunately fell for manipulation. I do not support this
But unfortunately or fortunately, most people are not Machiavellians or genius manipulators, so the phrase "Choose better" still makes sense.
The whole point is not to raise only material standards, but to pay increased attention to personal qualities. Not to look for gremlins or supermodels, but simply people who are attractive to you personally, who also value and love you.
If relationships are important to you, then almost any normal person will perfectly understand and support your desire to find a loving partner.
And I shudder when women say phrases like: "Men will still pump me up and dump me, so it's better that they are at least attractive." Like for god's sake, isn't the whole point to find a relationship without being pumped and dumped? Or am I getting something wrong....
And yes, this applies to all genders.
I've heard and even used an expression in my life for men like: "Don't think with your lower head, think with your upper head."
Anyone interested in a good relationship should check their future partner. No exceptions