cool/neutral toned everyday eyeshadow palettes?

sorry this has probably been asked lots! I have blue eyes/blonde hair and i’m not really sure what to look for myself because warm tones i can’t pull off, but then I feel like some cooler shadows i’ve tried just look grey.. but I also don’t want it to be pink either for it to stand out, which seems to be a common theme in cooler palettes. so came here for help lol

also preferably one that’s mostly if not entirely matte!