Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue.

This is my last post on this issue and, you can check my profile for background and more information.

My fiance was dead silent, so I called his sister to check on him and to my surprise, he has already told his parents and they were planning to visit mine.

I asked his sister what he said, and I was told that, my character has been manipulated infront of him and he deserves someone more clean.

Her sisters word's again left me speechless, and went straight to my father and told him, that I confided in a secret with him and he decided to call things off, before his parents enter our house kindly you call them first.

My father is a great man, and loves us siblings dearly. I will not lie, I was ashamed but I wanted to save him from further embarrassment.

Maybe after this my fiance sister told him about my call so I was left a text by him on WhatsApp.

Which went something like "I genuinely never expected you to be like this, and how can you think of anyone else but your husband to please you, never contact my family and especially my sister again."

I was furious, because my honesty was being taken as my weakness so I replied with a you never jerked off? Ever? Good luck finding a nun

My mother in particular is really distraught but I'm glad, I'm over that man and his shallow thinking. Thank you everyone for your support and even mean comments, it made me laugh alot.