Why are we more empathetic towards women venting than our fellow men?

Why is it especially on Reddit or this sub when a women comes here to complain/vent, there’s lots of people either giving her advice or, showing support, or if they’re criticizing her they’re doing it in a way where they’re walking on eggshells to make it sound less mean and aggressive. But when a man comes here to vent, the reaction is usually more aggressive and straight to the point, with sometimes even using insults to shame the man like “man up”, stop being an incel, grow up, touch some grass, stop being an idiot etc.

We tend to preach about males mental health and toxic masculinity, but when it comes to actually showing support for our fellow men it’s always through the form of tough love and telling them it’s their fault and responsibility to deal with it but with women, they get treated almost like how a child is treated.

Why is that way?